What Happens When Your Spirit Guides Lie

0:10 Hello, I'm Kimberly and I'm Laura and today the topic is what happens when your guides lie to you Yeah, this has just come up a lot lately Through our work through clients through our own, you know experience where we get messages And we think we're getting messages from our guides and so we totally believe in it and then It feels like it all falls apart Or it's not going to happen. Well, I think I think part of that is that we think our guides are telling us saying yeah Go for it and all that and then sometimes it's like well, maybe not yet. Maybe it wasn't the right time, right? Yeah, it's not that necessarily everything is what it is So, you know, it might be that there's a stage to get there You know that you got to walk up or climb up or maybe it's down the road a little bit Or maybe there's some little thing that you don't want to do and your guides are saying. Oh, yeah Yeah, well, it's it's it's coming. It's coming But if you didn't do it then you're gonna prolong that from happening well And so I was down the timing I talked about this in my newsletter Last month because it had come up so often and this happened to be a long time ago And I was kind of framing it in the way like it the metaphysical tools like using

1:27 Metaphysical tools you have to be careful not to give them too much power Because they can be manipulated by your energy. Oh, that's kind of the angle I was taking but then I was thinking about it later and I was like, wait a second There's been times that we've both gotten messages that we believed came from our guides But either it didn't happen or it didn't happen the way we thought. So what's that all about? Are your guides actually lying to you? I don't think so. No, it's not that It's just that that's how we feel in the moment. We feel like we've been lied to we feel like Well, you told me and I trust you and I was told to trust you So I've like laid my heart bare and then you just stopped all over it because the thing that you told me didn't happen, right? So it is a thing and like it in my newsletter. I talked about how I had a pendulum I was really getting used to using the pendulum and this was years ago in the beginning of my journey and I was using the pendulum and like really like in the results like it was exciting And you can train your pendulum to answer in certain ways and I was using yes and no most of the time But if the pendulum Circles over your hand then that was yes for me if it went back and forth. That was no So I was like, okay, cool. I you know I can talk to my pendulum

2:44 I can ask it all kinds of things and I mean I used to ask the pendulum like, you know In the beginning I was like will we go on tour? You know will we have like a tour bus? You know, it was this gonna is this are we gonna be like a household name, you know And I used to get all these yes answers and I was getting so excited and I was like, yeah Like we're gonna do this pumped up, you know, and then Something came up like it was a home lottery and I was like, okay, like, you know, that's really cool That house is beautiful. I love that house. I love where it is So I'm asking the pendulum am I gonna win the house and the pendulum said yes Of course because your energy wanted it to be yes, right? So I'm like, well, let's test this out I took my pendulum to the actual house and went down in the nice basement and did my little thing held it up and said Am I gonna win this house and the pendulum spun around like wildly? Yes. Yes And I realized that wasn't my guides. That was actually my energy manipulating the pendulum But I do believe that our energy can kind of cross hairs with the guide information So I thought the first thing to talk about maybe is how do you know what you're talking to your guides?

3:54 I think for me the easiest answer is because I mean, I have some funny stories about my guides I remember back in the day when you and I first got together and you know, and again We we've said this over many podcasts, but we weren't exactly the most popular people around some of our regular family and friends so You and I did a lot of red wine drinking and I remember a lot of coping, right? And I remember the time that one of my little guides little native woman Put a bunch of porcupine quills in my liver and I knew I should quit But I didn't because I didn't want to but the message I didn't even look at it like it was a message, you know Yeah, I was just like, oh, well, she's all she's doing this helping me I didn't even take it as I should quit but the funny thing that happened was The more we were drinking the more we didn't like it, right?

4:48 And we it's not that we won't ever have a glass of wine over the last few years, but we really don't drink and It's kind of want you to learn that The habit and the coping and what you were using it for it's a lot easier to release that and not do it anymore Because it's there's no need to oh, you know, that's so true You do you like there are a bunch of coping mechanisms that we develop and some of them are good and some of them aren't so good So you start to learn that as you get as you get better and you heal You kind of start dropping away from the ones that don't serve you. Yeah, but the thing about guides is for me I think I learned from a very young age to trust my guides more than people so usually for me the truth is When I hear truth, it's usually the truth that I probably would say I wouldn't want to hear It's the one that is to do the thing that I need to do not the thing. I wish I could do right, you know so there's this knowing that I get when my guides are talking to me and They're they're actually if I'm being honest They sound a lot like my personality very straightforward very honest to a fault sometimes and they just say exactly what it is Yeah, and sometimes feelings can be misconstrued because we're such emotional beings

6:08 We sometimes don't you know, we'll take something in information wise and then we process it But if we just let our guides speak to us and we kept our our busy minds out of it I think the answers would come a lot quicker and and easier Yeah, and I find when my guides are talking to me that there is a different feeling I have in my system Yeah, so it's like a feeling of stillness calm. It's a calm It's kind of like a nothing kind of space where I feel completely at ease Yeah, and Even if they're giving me messages that are hard. They're not really scary, right? There's no fear component There's no like Ultimatum feeling like you must do this right away, you know, it's not that it's more like We're here to offer this information and it's up to you whether you want to take it or not, right? So it's not this like Grand kind of you know Message and I think that's what we miss sometimes people are thinking they're connecting with their guides but you really have to Make sure that you're tuning into your own system your own body And is this coming from another place or is this coming from your actual guides?

7:22 Like I I have had them come through where they just give me one word Mm-hmm literal just one words like trust, you know, yeah or patience or patient I heard that over and over for years and years. Yeah, like everything's coming in in the proper timing And we're we're looking out for you. That's sort of what I get now I did ask my guides it was probably it was last summer and I was really struggling because I had multiple live events booked But I hadn't really done them like that in a while like I hadn't really done like those Group readings like where there's like 50 or 60 people in the room So I was nervous and I was talking to spirit and I was saying so, you know, how is this gonna go? like is this gonna be okay and I was told yes, we're gonna be with you. Everything's gonna be okay. You're gonna get everything you need and Then my next question was well, is it gonna get any bigger than this because I don't know if I like that and My guides were sort of like well, it's gonna get as big as you want it to be Exactly every time you step up and you expand you will have what you need So that's a typical kind of guide message, right? Hmm. And like maybe well typical for me anyway So I was gonna say yeah typical for us. Yeah, but there are all there are things that interfere with communication and

8:44 Our feelings and desires can be so strong that sometimes we hear what we want to hear So if your guide comes through This is an example. I could see in in this Communication I was having with my guide. I could see a big audience of people. I'm not talking 50 people. This is like Hundreds of people and I'm starting to get scared, right? And that's when my guides are coming through and they're saying it's okay. We're with you But you could take that the wrong way you could take that so many different ways because what if What if I go to somebody else's event? There's just a bunch of people there and I'm seeing that yeah, or what if it's not meant for me in this life But I'm building up to that in the next life So timing is so important because I I don't know what you well I think we talked about this like we've gotten messages years ago Mm-hmm that it takes them a long time to really come into the physical manifestation Infestation so I know I've gotten messages that I went oh well I get that message like 10 years ago, you know and is that really gonna ever happen, but then it does Well, I think sometimes there's other things that are holding the timing of things down You know you have children you're you know, you and I are traveling back and forth for over 10 years now to two different provinces

10:04 So I think sometimes messages there, you know in spirit time is inevitable like they don't it doesn't it's not the same Is here yeah exactly so and I mean I started this work 20 years ago and Right off the bat I had a vision the night before I did my first level Reiki. I had a vision and You know it was what appeared to me I was a native child and my native grandfather was we were sitting beside the fire and He was showing me what all the animals meant and as well as symbols and stuff So right off the bat I've been guided by my guides I believe to move forward in this work and I've lived a very I'll say natural way You know, I love gardening and growing things and creating life And I just love making things look like they're taking care of and there's light around me And there's color and it's always been a love of mine Way more now because I'm so comfortable within myself and then I've had I've had Meditations where I really always seen myself as a speaker and they kept showing me that I was meant to be in the healing Field, but that I was going to be a really good speaker and I can remember Like this was like repeated it happened night after night month after month year after year

11:26 You know, I kept having this vision and I would never let myself get on top of the mountain So I'd be traveling up the mountain and this was all you know Relating to the growth of life and evolving and all that stuff So it would show me that I was doing well and I'd be sitting around the fire with profound people Jesus Buddha elders like Sometimes beings from other planets and they and this was always the same thing sitting around the fire Kind of on an outlet off of a mountain, but I would never let myself get to the top, right? So then finally at one point I started having this same meditation, but I kept growing in them So then I got to this place where I was on top of the mountain and then there'd be Conversations about that and then it would be I'd feel this Expansion come in but I didn't still see anything. I was just still standing on top of the mountain speaking and speaking and I Kept feeling like what I had to say was very important, but there was nobody there at first So it was this process of getting me to the place where I believed that I had something important to teach Through the stories I've experienced in my life, right?

12:37 And then I finally get to the top of the mountain and I'm talking and I get frustrated so I bring this big satellite, you know up and it's you know Amplifying my voice outward, but again, it's still it took all these times before it finally got to a place where I could see like I'm it looked like a mirage like I thought I was seeing something, but there was thousands and Thousands of people so within our work I'm a very confident person in my work and I think that I do trust that Everything happens in divine timing even if I don't like it. There's there's moments where I have weak moments where I want it now but they're very they're very few and in between but The thing I know that is when you stay on course and when it's legit like real truth within you and within What you're meant to do here?

13:32 This stuff I believe it in a hundred and fifty percent. So I do know that the more I just take it day by day Month by month year by year and I think the thing we miss is we're so focused on What we're supposed to do how it's supposed to look when it's gonna happen We're missing out on the whole gift of what life actually is and why we're here to live that yeah You're missing like the actual purpose, right? And this is this is interesting because lately a lot of Clients have been asking About their purpose because maybe they're getting a little older and they're afraid they miss something But your purpose isn't sometimes exactly what you think it is You know and so you were told very early on that you were a healer and you have been and you were shown a vision of You know hundreds of thousands of people, you know listening to you. Well, you have a voice now We have the podcast right so that could very well happen But not maybe you're not going to stand on top of a mountaintop, you know with a with a microphone You know what I mean? Yeah, so it's still gonna happen. It's just happening in a different way But you you know, you are a healer and you have been healing people and so that's that's how that's kind of working out for you there's other people that come into this life and their purpose May be just to

14:54 Experience life like I had a client recently and She was wondering about her purpose and I said well I said it feels like you actually are just here for the show like you're here for yourself Development and involvement, but it's not really about anybody else and she said that's so funny because I've always felt that way I've always felt like I already did so many things that I just I just feel like I came here just to experience this life Experience love experience family be there for people, but I don't have as much to do You know almost like I've learned a lot, but my soul wanted to come because this is the time great time of a transition And it's it's it a lot of souls are here just to add their energy add their vibration Mm-hmm, and we can't say if you've gotten a message about your life purpose You have to look at the plain message You can't look at Something and put your own spin on it in your own interpretations and everything because it's like me I could have been seeing that big crowd of people, but I could have been just at a big show I mean, I I don't know that it's my show I didn't exactly feel bad so I can't take it out of context, right?

16:10 And your guides give you very plain messages very like plain to the point and sometimes only one word or two words Very very to the point and sometimes it's almost like for me Because we have a lot of other voices around us, you know, we have our responsibilities We have our own ego fear we have media we have family friends whatever So we have all these other voices that are interfering with that message and When we tune in to just our guides sometimes they give you the same message over and over again because they really want to They really want you to get it, but it's sort of like that quiet like background Like you really have to tune into it and that's something to remember is that your if a message is really for you It's gonna come back again. Mm-hmm. It's gonna come back again and again And it's not about showing you how great you are or what great things you can get Because usually they don't care about material things. No, so if they're coming through and they're telling you Yeah, you're gonna have this beautiful house. I mean If the beautiful home home represents peace and safety, then you will have peace and safety You're not necessarily going to get a big fancy house, right?

17:20 But maybe what the vision is is representing your life Representing building a life for you and your family or for yourself and it's a safe happy loving place So that's really where your guides really focus. They focus on making sure that you have what you need to complete your purpose They have what you need to live that high vibrational life because you You being here Means that you are adding your energy to the collective whether you are hard on yourself about completing your purpose or not It doesn't matter putting too much emphasis on things that don't matter. That's not I think if I could If there's one thing that Really hurts my heart is that I see so many people Trying to be something that is not in their highest good. Yeah And but they're so locked into it and you know, I have to use this story that I know you and I We we've had multiple lives together We've seen them we we have a lot of awareness of a lot of things and I remember when we were first trying to attract the house and we were struggling And you kept saying I see us in this new house. I see us in this new house and it was red Well, the funny thing is our house is red. It's navajo red

18:37 And the funny thing is is that it is a new house now Because we've replaced everything almost I think there's like one thing left to do It's a new shower downstairs, but we have replaced every single thing In this house. Yeah, and it is just like a new house The funny thing the journey of this house Is the journey of me because I feel like It has quieted the chatter. It has quieted so many things within me and You know, you think you want something until you get everything you need And sometimes everything you need doesn't look like what you thought it did But it feels the way you just couldn't ever imagine. Yeah, so it has this incredible feeling So now we're in the split entry, which I never thought I would I never really like the split entry So I thought and I absolutely love this house I didn't think this property was big enough for me to do all the gardening and things I wanted to do to it But it's plenty big enough to the point where, you know, I can't keep up sometimes But the thing that it's all taught me is how It's the moments that it takes to get from step one to step two And and to continue on every day of your life It's like, you know, somebody said to me the day they don't know

19:56 They want to learn how to be happy and I said, you know, really How does one learn how to be happy if someone hasn't ever experienced it? Yeah, you know, so happy to me is looking at colorful food and colorful plants and you know, I love I love to have a yard full of vegetables and herbs and plants that I can do stuff with and The more use I have for them, the more I love it because It brings me joy every day But I think when our listeners out there are looking to be happy My thing would be go try things And you'll figure it out as you go. It's like food You know, we eat something and you might not like it or it might be okay But it's not on your list of things that you're going to crave for forever type thing So I think happiness is something within And I think we're taught that happiness is something external, but it's not it's something that's within you Well, and that's that kind of brings me back to you because you're Like going through this life, you do need support. You do need guidance That's why people like life can be hard And that's why people lean on things like their guides, but your guides keep putting you back to yourself

21:12 Yeah, they keep kind of turning it back to you. So you can't Nor should you turn around and say, well, my guides told me this and it didn't work or it didn't happen And so now I'm not happy Your happiness is not your guide's responsibility. No, it's your responsibility. And so You being in this Life knowing that it's not going to be easy all the time knowing that things are going to be hard That that's something your guides know. That's why they're there. They're here They're here like the bumper pads like to keep you from going off the edge But they're not going to show you the way, you know, your way is your own So find your way through Through your happy, you know, I think that gift is in the learning It's in the process of getting from one place to the next Absolutely. That's the other like they don't give you all the answers And if they are giving you all the answers, that's not your guides No, because that would never happen. They don't tell you everything. They kind of shine the light Yeah, we we think you should go over this way, but they're not going to tell you what's going to happen Yeah, they're not going to tell you how to get there I think that ego is a funny thing, right because it'll trick you But I think the thing about your guides is it is you have this internal knowing when it's your guide You know, and it's like they'll show me what's in front of me

22:30 But they'll also say but you know, you have your own responsibility To do this or to do that. So if you don't have You know the strength or the ability to do the things you need to do to get Where you're going, I'll say Then it might take you a little longer to get there because you're refusing to do the Listen, I'm I'm going to be honest here I always know Because I know that one of the things that holds me back in timing Is that there's things I'm supposed to do for me meaning get up every day and move walk Don't work your guts out because that's something I have an easy time to do. I'm I'm technically a workaholic, but it's I do a lot of things I love to do But I know that if if my goal is to be on stage and to be doing big talks Then it's going to happen. I believe in manifestation like a hundred percent And I've been an incredible manifesto in my life However, I still know That we joke because if I get on the floor and I do 20 minutes of my stretching morning and night I can move a hundred percent better But if I don't do it, I'm going to be in more pain. I can't move as quickly Without discomfort and whatever. So it's like the universe says to me

23:48 Do the things for you that you need to do take the hot baths do your nails spend time reading a book Overlook nature instead of doing everything and you know, that's work. So I I know That the messages my guides give me are very clear and I can hear them Like I don't I don't even have to There's no disputing what they say. I never have that I've done this long enough to know that when they talk, they do not waste words And like we were talking about the jackpot thing earlier and we were talking about how you know, like, um I was like asking am I winning this house or whatever and then your response was well, you you got a dream home We won this every we got this house. Yeah, now we didn't we paid for it But um in a lot of ways we did win it, you know like it's interesting how and that's like Perception right it's perception and it goes back to the divine timing. Yeah, you know, like you can't have something before the time There's reasons why things are happening in order So you May get a message about something or you May feel something that your guides are telling you But it didn't happen right away. That doesn't mean it's never going to happen It just means you have to be patient

25:05 But also I think that sometimes when you get things too easy or too quick You don't appreciate it on the level that Like I can honestly say I so love this house. I I so appreciate this house and I I wanted a sweat equity home. So I you know, we really work our guts out here But when you look at the light emanating from this property in this house and when I go away I could work my guts out. But when I come home, this is where I unwind unravel Reconnect regenerize generate myself and it's it's home, you know, and yeah, it's it's beautiful Well, that's the thing, you know thinking about all these things like there's the You know think about the divine timing and that's kind of the a place and you know Your guides have a place they have a place to like help show you the way But you still have to walk the way, right, you know, you can't pick you up and carry you Yeah, you can't just stay at the starting line and just like go well My guides are gonna lift me to the finish line like and I'm gonna get everything that they said that doesn't work like that and you know, I'm reminded of The kind of like story or parable of the man who prays to win the lottery and he asks god and he keeps saying Please help me win the lottery. Please help me win the lottery and he goes to church and he prays for it

26:22 He gets up in the morning and he prays for it He goes to bed at night and he said please help me win the lottery And then so finally he dies and he gets in front of god and he says Well, I was asking if I you know could win the lottery like consistently like every day three times a day How come I didn't win and god says well, you didn't buy a ticket and my thinking on that is like, yes, you can Ask and accept guidance from your guides, but you also have to move You know, you have to take action. You have to move forward It's like if you want to meet new people, they're not going to come to you Right, you know, you have to go out into into the world and actually put yourself out there and meet new people And it's it's so surprising to me the number of people That come to me and they say well, am I going to be in a relationship and my My thing always is well, are you going to leave your house?

27:16 You know, like you have to actually go out into the world and talk to people and Meet new people for that to happen. So there's we have a part to play right and It's interesting how like some of my messages and your messages have come And they have kind of worked themselves out over the years, right? Like they have evolved and I I don't think I knew that when I was getting those messages in the beginning because I just thought I'm in need I'm struggling I need this message and then I get the message and then it doesn't happen right away and then you start questioning Don't question just just kind of record Like record the message Record the guidance and put it in your back pocket because sometimes it does it evolves and changes and comes around And you don't have to do anything You know, we talk about manifestation You don't have to ask the universe like the guy with the lottery You don't have to ask the universe three four times a day for the same thing. You've asked once it's recorded You know and you have to trust like I trust that I'm always getting what I need Yeah, always like we have to understand to like, you know, your guides not only tell the truth But they also want you in the highest possible vibration and they're trying to do what's best for you

28:32 So sometimes They're like dreaming the big dream for you And there is like this Higher vibration if if somebody told you if if somebody like a spirit guide came to you and said And you know that thing you're doing that you love well, it's not going to work out to it Would you do it and would you enjoy those times like doing that activity? No And so are they going to do something that's not in your highest good? Are they going to come to you and say, you know that thing you love? Yeah, that's going to fail You know, they're not going to do that's not going anywhere. Yeah So so your failures and and your successes and everything it's all part of the process And it's things that you have to complete along your path They're not going to take you away from the things that you asked to do You actually asked to do these things before you even came here So they're just trying to support that, you know, I I feel like It's kind of funny how I feel today versus even a few years ago, but I feel completely like a success Because every day I get to go outside and play in the dirt I and you're not lying my wife said, you know, you should just quit work and just grow shit and I said, yeah Well, I could do that

29:48 But I also need to feel like I'm giving back So, you know, we can give back with our work and help people and every time I know I just I just uh, I got back from teaching in New Brunswick, Iraqi class and I'm telling you it lit me up like a Christmas tree I just I love Sharing the way I think and feel and and my beautiful wife taught with me, which is so what's what's such a gift for me Because we both just love this stuff so much, but every one of my students wrote me this beautiful Message the next day saying how it affected them how they loved being in the class and you know in a world right now that's full of so much distress and And not knowing so I'll say It's it's super comforting to be you know hearing from listeners that you know, our podcast is making them feel a certain way or We're teaching or just doing a treatment, you know, I've been working on kids a lot lately and Hearing from their parents what they're saying about the treatments. It's blowing my mind I just feel like the luckiest person in the world, you know, so and I think that I think that the gift of life is

31:04 Maybe not exactly what we think it is and I think guides are just like sometimes there's this whole group thing that happens as a group You know, we we sometimes yeah, we we chose what we chose But sometimes the timing could be just that partly you're waiting for somebody that's really close in your life and your family to Transition through something. Yeah, and it's not that that's holding you back But it's you're not the only person living in this life And it's not all about you. You know, right? So it's like sometimes there's these things that we call setbacks That are I I say set ups We're getting set up for the next stage. It's not a setback. It's like take time How many lives most souls live before they get to this current one?

31:53 And all those lives prepare you for this current life Right and so this life then is preparing you for the next right and there's Not a lot of people but people say this all the time And it's kind of a pet peeve of mine where they say well I'm on my last life and I'm never coming back here And my thought always when I hear that is you are coming back here because that is your attitude And when you get to the other side and you see your own attitude you go Oh, I have to go back Don't I because I didn't learn the lesson of loving life, right? And that's the gift that's it right there It's like you got to learn to love this life and when somebody asked me that question I said I feel like I never had to come this time But I was like hell, yeah, I'm going down every time I get a chance to go. I'm going It's a wild ride. It is a physical beautiful life that the soul craves and I mean If you make your life complicated, then it's going to be complicated And if you make it easy Then it's going to be easy or Okay, yeah, well, I'm gonna say easy or because I don't want to But you know, I guess this is this is it your mission continues on, you know, it's not just about this life It's about the next two and it's about where you're trying to go as a soul So to know that if you've got messages from your guides and you're going that ain't happening, you know

33:12 First of all, the negative attitude might stop it from happening But or slow it rate the heck down. Yeah, right But know that there's more, you know, there's always more there's more to this life There's more to this existence and then knowing that we're going like life to life is important Um to know that you're building, you know, and you've chosen some experiences, but yeah That whole thing. This is my last life. I'm like, it's definitely not Because that's your attitude Yeah anyway So some of the things that we can do to know that this guidance because the biggest issue is this happens Where people stop trusting they stop trusting that that you know, divine wisdom or that divine guidance And that's what we don't want. We don't want you to stop listening and stop trusting or to have like question in your faith and a lot of times we have these Questionable moments and they do teach us something but you still got to remain open so um Like my kind of thought and I'll let you speak to this too, but Part of dealing with this What we feel might be a miscommunication from our guides is actually continue to stay open

34:28 Because maybe you only have a piece of the puzzle, right and usually that's exactly what it is It's usually you're missing a piece of the puzzle Right and I think the other thing is it's like Don't forget to dream. Mm-hmm And don't forget to be in the moment when you can learn to live in the moments What happens to you is you stop even caring about what you thought you wanted Because you learned what you didn't think you needed made you feel Way better than you thought it ever could and you stop I think the other thing is stop allowing other people To steal your energy in a sense where because then it takes you longer because you're depleted So stop putting so much attention on other people's lives because if we're being honest people are judging everybody Everybody's judging but to what level and if you're caught up in everybody else's stuff You're not paying attention to yours and you're missing the whole point. Yeah, right If all I ever did was worry about everybody else. I wouldn't be enjoying the nice sunny day I wouldn't go for the walk on the beach. I wouldn't be growing the things that bring me joy You're you're you're missing out because all you're focused on is Getting whatever that thing is you want and what you think this your spirit guides are going to help you get that's that's not the point Exactly. And so that's the other that's the side of this, right?

35:47 We got to continue to listen continue to stay open and stay in the place of openness and receptivity and positivity Because you are you are the master, you know, you are the You know the captain of your own ship So do you want to stay in a place that's very narrow focused or do you want to allow All the energy to come in so you can actually co-create with the universe Because you can't co-create with the universe if if you're only focused on that one narrow thing You know, if you're only going I really I really want that, you know sports care. That's what I want I just want that sports care your guides don't care about that Okay, so if your guides are telling you that you're going to get a sports care I would stop listening to those guides because that's probably just your own desires coming forward They don't care. They want you to be well. They want you to have what it represents So if they're showing you a sports care, they're probably showing you what it represents like freedom You know carefree stress free traveling You know having some kind of like confidence, I guess like that's what they're probably trying to show you because they don't care If you get the material thing So it's like us with the house. Did we get a house that we feel completely safe in?

37:01 Do we feel like we're the masters of this domain? You know, absolutely. Yes. Yes, and yes, and we feel peaceful here We feel safe and all together. That's what you want. You want the feeling, right? So looking for the feeling listening to your heart is really important and being patient I mean, I think we just like hammered that in today Oh, yeah. Well, how many years did I hear that back to back to back and you know This is just a funny little story But recently I had a little you know health crisis and I was on the last podcast if you were listening But you know, I have this thing about me. I love making things look good. And I was just I was I couldn't get it out of my head that I wanted to redo the floor of the deck and For my own reasons, you know Because it because it's okay. Yeah, and my wife said to me, oh, you know what?

37:55 I don't know if we should do the deck right now There's robin's eggs under the deck and there's a little robin like a little note And I thought oh, well that just it just fixed it right there I said well, we can't do that and then I thought well see how you could say No to something because of something that you gave like meaning to so But I couldn't say no to me because it would like kill my back to finish that and really does it matter So what did we do on Saturday? Was it we we put everything out in the deck And we put all the lights up and it just looks gorgeous and now we can enjoy it So I'm so grateful to be able to hear the messages because sometimes they're just they're that simple It's like some little idea that is given that frees you up from doing the thing that would have That's it. We didn't we didn't even talk about that consuming how you know We get guidance through physical people right lives like we do have guidance and I Kim was talking about staining the deck and I was just thinking about it going I know she shouldn't like, you know, it's not good for her and but then it popped into my head I was like, oh my god if we get out on the deck and we're working in stuff and sanding it

39:10 We're going to scare away the robin that has the eggs in the nest under the deck And how beautiful is it that they're there? Like I feel so grateful that they chose our deck It's so funny that that's what changed your mind instead of your Who's to say that your guide didn't tell you to say that and you just said it out loud and I was like Oh, but but that's the thing. I guess I'm always in awareness of of guides and and little messengers and they come in many different forms and I I love it like to me this whole thing is is like this fun game. We get to play all the time So it's like why not trust it? Well, and that that leads me to my next point actually and I was I was wanting to say this too that you can change course So let's just say, you know Kim is feeling like, you know, I really want to make the deck perfect. So that's where that feeling came from I want the deck to just be A great place for us to relax all summer and enjoy and so that's where her head was But then she changed course because she got a new message So you need to know too that you can change course. You don't have to stay Going full steam ahead if it doesn't feel right to you And a lot of people see something like they'll get a message or something from their guide But like Kim said sometimes somebody else in your life has changed or something interferes

40:30 It's not necessarily you but you don't have to continue on a course. That's not right for you It's not good for you. So you have the right to change And I think the other thing that I've learned in the last I'll say six months, you know, things were getting really To a head I'll say and then we both took the energy away from it because we're always worrying about our kids and our Our parents and our siblings and friends and we're worrying about this thing and that thing But then it's taking it's occupying space within us So when we just start saying, you know what I trust my kids have what they need within them and that they came here For their own growth and involvement And I have to trust that and I need to back away and set better boundaries and give space for other things So and then you realize that holy god, you get all this energy. That's just yours And you can do so much more with that because you're not worrying about that thing or trying to control that thing And I think that's the other part of it is we're always trying to control What our guides what we think they're saying what they possibly are not even saying but we want to hear that And it's like the more you learn to feel and be in the moments and quiet yourself The more real true answers you're going to get that's right and

41:47 Quieting yourself is a key. It's a key to this because when you totally can clear and I know how hard it is But when you can clear your mind and you're feeling totally open And totally in trust and free Then you can get those clear messages from your guides that actually feel right to you and make sense Well think how can you hear anything in chaos? You know and I was you know, it's it's a proven fact. I have crazy ADHD and But the thing is it's now my superpower Because I've learned how to use it and I've learned how to listen and pay attention to the signs And I'm never going to be done and I have that built into me. I know that I'm never going to know at all I'm never done. We're never done until we take our last breath and we're all then when we do we're we're gone and What what's it saying ghosts? We're sucked off and we're coming back the next time to already work on that one We want this show called ghost. Yeah, yeah That's a really funny show if you like to if you like comedies. Yeah all about ghosts. Um, yeah anyway This was uh And kind of I think an important topic because a lot of people lose faith If they've gotten a message and it doesn't happen And then they lose faith and their complete spirituality isn't it funny how it only takes one thing and we're just totally like

43:04 Turned off, but I think the thing is to maintain maintain the faith be patient Stay open and receptive and allow your guides to continue to show you this whole story Let your story unfold. Well, and if you're looking for a partner get out and find them But don't go to places. You don't really want to be Yeah, you know I don't know if you want to marry the amazon delivery guy, you know Maybe that's not the best guy for you. Not that that's a bad thing. Yeah, maybe that is who you want to marry But we were talking about this and I said, you know, if you were if if Kim was dating She would probably go to the garden center and see who she could meet there, you know Yeah, no, if I was dating, I don't know where I'd go. I'd probably I'd probably go to the library. Maybe I don't know Intellectual or bookstore. Yeah Um, so, you know, we we have to do what fits you and your guides won't give you any Messages that don't fit you that don't suit you that aren't for you. They never would do that Well and get out there and let yourself be stretched because I think in life sometimes we have to be pushed To grow so it's like expansion. We talked about the arrow before sometimes you got to pull that thing back So hard, but when you let that go look out for how far you can go That's right and your guides know what you're capable of and they know how far you can go

44:23 And all your reality it's already created in the energetic sense. It's just got to bring it down to the physical Absolutely So we'll talk to you again about another fun topic next week Mm-hmm If you're interested in contacting Kim for soul awakening coaching, please contact her at mksoulcoaching.com If you'd like to check out my website and everything that I do, please go to laurawarrenmedium.com