The Magic of Spirit Connection

0:00 Hello, I'm Kim and I'm Laura and today we're talking about the magic of spirit connection The magic of spirit connection. I this has really I can say truthfully wholeheartedly that this connection has absolutely changed my life and me as well. Yeah, absolutely. And in such a vast way, right? So it has something to do with every aspect of your being and of your everyday life. Well, I can look at it from the lens of mediumship and it's funny because I've always known that mediumship was a lifestyle for me. And as I'm teaching students and my students are starting to say the same thing, they're like, wow, this is like a complete lifestyle. And it's even more than that because I feel like the spirit of connection gets it's like it gets into the very core, the very cells of your being. And it starts to direct everything that is happening to you, everything you do, everything you think, everything you feel, everything you say.

1:06 Absolutely. And I think the thing even for me being in this, let's remember we're in a nine universal year. And I think it's so important to emphasize that that for all of us for so long, I think we've been feeling, you know, this change and all this stuff coming and this is the time to make those, you know, thoughts in your head that what do you want to create for yourself, you know, well, we're in 2025, we're at the end, and we had Ann Perry on earlier in the fall. And to talk about numerology and this being in this nine year has been really interesting for for us because we're paying attention and because we know everything means something. So we've we've really been letting go of a lot of the old stories and the old behaviors that don't work anymore, because going into 2026 is going to be a complete shift. And next week, we are going to have our podcast. Yeah, about 2026 and how different it is, because it really is different from it's different from any other year.

2:14 You know, I think I could safely say that 2026 energy is completely different from any year that any living person has experienced, I would agree on this earth right now, it's a huge shift. So we want to we want to dedicate next week to that. But we really wanted to talk to you about how this not only this work, because how this work begins, how this life, lifestyle, how this all encompassing, you know, movement on your soul path, how it begins is really quite magical. And we're, we're usually the universe like the universe is pretty smart, usually piles on all these magnificent experiences in the beginning. So it catches your attention and you really can't ignore it. You really can't just say, oh, that's just a coincidence or whatever. And as you go through, you learn, oh, there is no coincidence. No, everything is happening exactly as it should. I am, I think it's interesting because, you know, Laura and I are in the work and she does mediumship, but a lot of the healing work I do is intuitive. So a lot of times things come through in the session. And yesterday I was working on this girl and her mom passed earlier in the year, I believe in the spring. And she said,

3:35 Oh, she said, can you and Laura tell me why I keep waking up at 430 every morning? Why to wake, why to wake, why to wake? And I said, well, I said, and I'm in the treatment with her. And I said, well, if your mom's trying to contact you, you know, she would be pretty strong and consistent staying with the same time to try to get you to pay attention. And right as I said that, the music I was playing was healing music, but it was music of birds. So the whole, I've listened to it a hundred times. And I know there's no Santa Claus talking through, talking through the birds, talking through the birds. So as I was working on her and she was asking me this question, I heard Merry Christmas and something else, but it was very like the Merry Christmas we both heard. And we were kind of ignoring it at first. And then it started playing. What's it called towards the night before Christmas, which was her favorite story, her favorite Christmas story. And in the moment when I said it to her, we both were like, Oh my gosh, so your mom's communicating with us right now.

4:44 And I always light a candle and I burn sage and the candle is for the client. And it's, it's just a way of releasing the energy of whatever we're doing in the treatment. So the candle was all like somebody was blowing on it. And clearly there is no, there's, there's no wind in my room. Well, maybe there's lots of wind while there's talking, but we're quite a bit away from it. So all these little things have been happening lately that not only are we getting messages through some of our old ways of just knowing, feeling, sensing, but that for me was I had something happen last week at work as well, but the, the messages are even getting stronger, I find, because of the universal energy.

5:29 Well, it's interesting because the, we like, as long as I've been in this work, there have been intuitives talking about the veil thinning. Now I have to say that it's been years of this, like I'm talking 15 years of hearing people say this. And so you tune it out after a while, like you kind of go, well, blah, blah, blah, of course it is. But what's happened in what I can see, what's happened, I know to me, it's almost like when I call in spirit for readings, it's like they are physical, like they're standing or sitting right next to me. And it's so tangible that I feel like if I looked like it almost this feeling, if you look fast enough, you're going to see them with your physical eyes sitting right next to you, because their presence is so real. And this is, I'll have to say that, you know, mediumship is interesting because there's lots of TV shows, like if you are old enough to remember the ghost whisperer, you know, Jennifer Love Hewitt's character was like talking to ghosts as if they were solid, you know, and having these perfect conversations, that's really not what mediumship, you know, looks like for, for I don't think any medium. But, but what is happening is this, the shift where spirits come

6:51 So strong into our everyday life, so strong into, you know, into my work, it's, it's different. I feel the shift. I feel their presence in a deeper way than I ever used to. And don't you think, sorry to interrupt you, don't, I'm asking your opinion for this too, but don't you think it's also because of the time we're in in history, like, like where we are, and if we all as a soul group chose to be here in this time in history, where all this great change is happening, it's like, of course, it's lining up now because it's time. So, yeah, it might have took 15 years for the veil to get then, but let's be honest, we're human beings, and we have to have our head put right through the wall before we change. Well, yeah, absolutely. The veil is actually what it is, is actually a system of belief.

7:41 Right. So what is the, the veil is actually what we feed into as our systems of belief through religion, and through what we believe we're capable of, what we believe is out there. As a collective. What, yeah, as a collective. So there's a, there's a scientific kind of theory called critical mass, and you can use critical mass in any part of your life. It's like, I was listening to the book, I'm gonna, I'm gonna forget the name of the book, Atomic Habits. Oh yeah. That was the group that I love that. It's an amazing book. Look it up. It's amazing. So he talks about how when you're building habits in the beginning, it feels like you're not getting results. So he said, you know, you can go to the gym for 30 days and not feel like you have any results, but it's on the 31st day that you start to notice change. So this is kind of like the tipping point. This is like, you have to think about, you know, how energy builds, how your behaviors change over time, and your thoughts, and your, your beliefs.

8:43 So now what's happening is we're pulling away from a human made belief system, and we're starting to feel within us authentically what we connect to, and how we connect to the unseen world. And we are reaching that critical mass. So we're reaching enough people that we're hitting the tipping point so that if we all are thinking about it and we all believe, then it will, that world opens up to us on such a massive level. And it May, May be one day not one day it is, you know, it's kind of that kind of flip flop. And the other thing that I think about, so the veil is, is our belief system. It's the resistance we've created because we need to stay safe. We need to control our world, you know, and now we're starting to feel like, wait, there's more weight. I need, I need to move forward. I need to open up my mind. I need to see that this is this truth is really what's been out there. And I haven't seen it before.

9:42 So moving into that, the more people that are in an intuitive, even a psychic space, connected space, a spiritual space, and we're letting go of the human ideas about what life is and life after death and how we exist, that takes away that resistance, that wall that we call the veil. So now we talked about this around Halloween, how it felt like there was no veil. And the reason for that is because around Halloween, think about it, how many people are thinking about spirit, you know, whether it's good or bad, right? Like they're thinking about things that, you know, maybe don't have a physical source or they don't, they don't have like documented scientific evidence that this is happening. So we're starting to see that there's some things that science can't measure. We're starting to see that if we as humans are trying to measure something that is measured with our human standards, but the, but the actual thing we're trying to measure is not human. We can't actually detect it, but we feel it.

10:50 Right. We feel it. So we feel it within our very core. So where we're going is a place of personal truth, right? Personal innovation, personal reinventing of ourselves. That's really where we're going. Absolutely. Absolutely. I just kind of fell asleep listening to you because I was like, man, I love listening to her. I can keep talking. You're so, you know, but I think you and I always come from a different perspective about this, and that's what makes it so powerful. And I've noticed this year that whether I'm treating somebody physically or coaching them verbally, right? It's to watch the response when you say things that seem to me so simple, but to them, it's like that big aha, you know, and I think that's my love of this, this work that we both do is that you're creating a different belief in someone than they had the, you know, they just haven't had the, what's the word I'm looking for?

11:51 It wasn't available to them before. And it's basically it's perception and awareness, right? Because if you don't have the, if you don't have the awareness presented to you, you can't, you can't have the awareness. You can't have that thought. Well, I think, I think about when I was a kid and my mother's mother, her family was all so spiritual, so like, you know, my great grandmother who I was named after was actually considered a saint with anybody that knew her. So I learned, I learned about God that way. But then when I get into this work, I learned about a God consciousness, I'll call it universal consciousness, that it hit me in a different way. And I started actually being more connected to my father's side. And it's funny how our perception is we look at somebody and see them struggling so much in life. And, you know, there's like an awareness or what's the word I'm looking for. Some people don't have the same amount of education, but the life lessons. And my father's family actually are quite incredibly connected to spirit. And after

13:07 When my grandmother, my dad's mom died, I got, I felt her more like stronger than I ever did when she was here in the human form. And I actually started getting quite close with her. And then my aunt Irene after she passed and one of my mom's sisters. So here I became really close with these people after they passed. And they started standing up with me supporting me energetically from the other side. So our perception of who is good and who is bad and who is because you see somebody struggling through life and maybe they smoke and drink or maybe there's like illness and dysfunction, mental illness, bipolar, you know, I found out my grandmother was actually quite the seer when she was younger. And when people were missing, she could see it. But God love her. And I don't know all the story, I'm not going to say I do, but they put her through shock therapy and you name it. And she was really quite a simple, unbelievably beautiful human being that was, in my mind, very misunderstood.

14:16 And as I've connected with her from the other side, I look at people completely different now through being in my work. I have so much more respect and compassion for them, because they chose hard, hard shit. That was the surprising thing for me, too, is that I was when I started doing readings. Now I have to say that it's easier to be judgmental, because it's easier. It's easier. It's easier for you to put things in categories and your brain really likes that. Your brain really likes it if you can. And we all judge, let's be honest, just different levels. It's a human condition. So it's really easy to look at somebody and go, oh yeah, well, they're they're not a good person because they do this or this or this. But when I started doing readings and I started seeing the soul of people, so their light, their energy, and I started to see their life path and started to understand that the trials and the struggles they go through actually show them exactly who they are. And a lot of the struggles and trials are already pre-written. So they know as a soul that they're going to go through these things. And I'm talking like I read people that did terrible things, some of them.

15:34 I still remember this young man that came for a reading because he was really struggling. He had grew up in a family that was very connected to crime and he got involved and then he was in prison. And then he came to see me and he was struggling because really his core true self wasn't aligned with that lifestyle, but that's the lifestyle that he learned. And that's all he knew. And he didn't know what to do because the only person in his life that believed in him that knew he had a good heart was his grandmother and his grandmother was gone, she was in spirit. So he came to me to talk to her. And I remember him coming and I could say all the judgment I could say, you know, he showed up, he he did look rough, like he was driving a very fancy vehicle, you know, big rims. And he had a big gold chain on and he, you know, the gold teeth and the whole bit. And I could say all these human judgments about him, but he actually was a beautiful person. And he just, this is just his life experience. And it's meant to happen. It was meant to happen. He was meant to be here. He was meant to go through this. He was meant to be this person. And he was meant to figure out who he was.

16:46 But how would he ever figure out who he was without all this challenge and trials and struggles? And so I think what you're also feeling with your dad's family is that they actually have discovered a lot of who they are through their trials and their tribulations. They've discovered deep within them who they are. Because when you're faced with all that struggle, you have a choice. I mean, you can fall into the pit and just stay in the hole. Or you can find a way to fight and climb your climb out. And I feel like your dad's family have all fought it on some level, you know, to get some fighting and still fighting some of them, but to get to some balance. So you see the beauty in a soul that has been challenged. And you see the beauty in somebody's life plan. You see the beauty in how it fits into the the big puzzle of life or the big puzzle of consciousness, their peace fits. Right.

17:41 And the most amazing thing about doing readings for me in the beginning was all the lessons that Spirit taught me. They taught me so many lessons and I was so immensely grateful, still grateful to this day to be able to see the world in this beautiful way. It's like, it's like looking at a kaleidoscope of colors. And it's, it's amazing to see all the different expressions of energy. I think one of the things that's always really, really, and I mean profoundly deeply, I'm emphasizing this because it's so big for me. But I think one of the things that have always hurt my heart is when I have clients come in and they feel like they are dark and they are bad, whether it's from the family they're connected to, or the experiences they've allowed themselves to fall into good or bad. And I can't tell you the amount of people I have seen that I have felt this and I see so much light around them. And I mean, sometimes I've even seen angels wings on them. And when I tell them, they look at me like I am crazy, and they struggle so hard to hear what I'm saying and to let themselves feel it's like they push it away. And you know,

18:56 I see this in my family as well. I see this in some of my family members that they don't behave very well. There's a lot of heavy judgment around other people. But I can see that deep torture that deep insecurity within them. And I love them deeply, but I can no matter how bad some of them have like acted over whatever incidents were happening. I could also I could I would not like the behavior in the moment. But there was still a part of me and a part of my heart that I could connect with them and see their soul's light. Yeah, so I knew it was just this is a perception they're stuck in. They're stuck in this perception that they're not as important. And every single being is important. There is no, there is no God consciousness, universal source energy that excludes one over the other. It's just it's impossible.

19:52 That's the thing. It really takes me back to not understanding some of the teachings of Jesus when I was little or young person in church. I didn't really understand it. I was like, how could he look at lepers and how could he look at the homeless and how could he look at street people and just see beauty, just see beauty, just see a soul, a beautiful soul, a beautiful light and how could he then extend himself to help. And now I have to say that I feel like this work has really connected me to what is true, what is real. And there's a lot of things that we experience daily in our physical world that really don't have any substance. They're not real. They're not connected to anything good. So anything you can think of anything you can dream about, it can be manifested into the physical. And so yes, is there bad people? Yes, there, there are some bad people, but most people doing bad things because they don't know better.

20:54 Well, that's what I was going to say. Most of the time, what we view as bad people are not, they're not bad people. They're people that have been misguided. They're making decisions because it's the best. Maybe they're making the best choice they know how to make. Maybe they don't have the skills to do any better. Maybe it's just their sole plan. You know, there's some people, there's souls. I say this a lot because I think prisons are full of beautiful people, full of beautiful souls. You're always going to come across one, you know, or, you know, the odd like soul that actually is here to create havoc and be evil. And on the other side, what you see is most souls cross over and as soon as the intention to heal, forgive and be better, as soon as that intention comes forward, they are, they are progressed past the point of causing people pain because they have all the skills they need. There's no mental illness on the other side. There's no lack of tools. There's no lack of support. There's no lack of love. So with all that support and everything they have, they, most people have goodness in their heart. Oh, most people are doing the best they know how to do. They really are. And there's always,

22:12 Like I said, everything we can think about everything we can kind of have an inspiration or a thought about it can be created into the physical. And I do see very rare, like I'm talking like 0.05% of people are actually have evil within them. So for me, that's like nothing. I look at people like everybody's doing the best they can do. And there's magic in every person's life path and every person's soul. And we as humans will look at somebody and say, Well, they didn't do this. Well, they didn't do that. Well, they're doing this. Well, this happened, you know, but really, we don't understand. We're not in that person's life. We or we're not in their head. We're not in their heart. We don't know why they make the decisions they make.

23:03 We don't know what supports they haven't had. And when I'm connecting with spirit, especially spirit of people that have made mistakes, or they made choices that they shouldn't have made, or they hurt people, the feeling that comes through is they are so aware, they're so in tune with what they did. And as long as they're a person that can actually apologize, because I will say personality holds people back from forgiveness, right? As long as they're stubbornness is because they're so hard on themselves. Exactly. They won't allow themselves to make a mistake and look at it. And I, you know, I have to say, this is probably the biggest thing I think is our problem in life is that we don't unpack things. We don't deal with things. We, you know, we, we these big things are happening, but we just keep walking over top of them instead of saying, well, wait a second, what was that bump in the road? You know, what, let's take that out and let's look at that. You know, this fall, I've probably had the best year that I can remember in so long. I can't even begin to explain. However, I did not finish the year that way. I felt like somebody put me in one of those, what do you make a martini with that shaker thing?

24:17 Oh geez, I don't know. I felt like somebody put me in that and struck me upside down and inside out. And I really struggled and I was angry about this and I was upset about that. And, you know, all it was, was I really had to work through some things that were things I needed for myself. Right. You know what the theme for 2025? This is kind of funny because we've watched kpop demon hunters like a few times with the grandkids and I actually really like the movie. I think there's you have to watch it. There's good messages in it. But one of the messages in the song that one of the popular songs from the soundtrack is we can't fix it if we never face it. And I love that. I think that's the tattoo. I think that's the theme from 2025. You can't fix it if you won't face it. Right. And I think the thing about me is I sometimes get talked. I'm being careful what I say here, but Laura would say that I'm a very honest, brutally honest person. And she'll say, I don't need a partner to keep me in check. I have one right now. She was writing a book and she said what accountability partner. She looked at me and she goes, well, I don't need one because you make me accountable in every moment. Well, yeah, if you if you're writing,

25:34 If you're a writer out there and you're struggling and you're thinking, you know, wow, it's just I need somebody to help me along. I need somebody on this journey. I have one. I live with one. I sleep with one. Like, you know, she's my sounding board. But I always say people either love me or hate me because I'm so brutally honest. But she's the person like I'm gonna I'm gonna give her a job with my with my book and I'm gonna get her to give me deadlines because she's the person she's such an enforcer. It's a little scary. And I don't mean to be that way. No, but she honestly anybody that knows Kim knows that she's a truth teller. And if you don't want to know the truth, do not ask her the question because I'm telling you she is going to give it to you and you're you're just going to have to take it because you asked, you know, I didn't really even realize that about myself being honest. I did not. And then being around you and you constantly putting it back to me, I'm like, Oh, okay, I guess I don't even realize it. I'm just I've always been a problem solver. And I think that stems from being I think I was a born counselor with my mom and my mother talked to me about everything and the deepest stuff and the hardest stuff. But she always looked to me as somebody who I kind of feel like a mentor with her a lot of her life.

26:51 And she just always asked me these hard questions and I always had an answer. So there's, that's it though, like you, where did the answers come from? So again, we're back to connectedness because we just watched a video that I did with Ann Perry's community. So Ann Perry does a Six Psychics Under One Roof every year, go to YouTube, watch that video because it's going to prepare you for 2026. But we were watching it some of it this morning and just like I'm listening to it. We're both watching listening. I, I, Laura is not that smart. I'm sorry. Like, no, like there's a lot of stuff in my head. Okay. There's a lot of things. But to put it all together, I when, when, yeah, when we did that video, I was absolutely channeling. And so when I believe, I believe when we accept our connection, when we embrace it, then spirit and our higher self can speak through us. Absolutely. Whenever is needed.

27:58 And honestly, I could, I could say, Oh, it's all me and I practiced. I was on radio shows and things call in shows where I had to have an answer right away and like, I could say that, but it's not that. It's actually my connection with my guides, with my ancestors, with my higher self. This, I'm an open channel when I am, when I'm on these shows and I don't say it because, you know, it's like, Oh, I'm channeling. Ooh, you know, I don't do that. But I know my channel is open. Whatever comes through me, I trust and I know it's true. And so now I've become so good at trusting when I'm in these situations that it flows. But this particular, you'll see it, if you watch this video, you'll see it at the end of my presentation, that I just kind of go, because it wasn't really me, but it was so much energy going through me that I felt it.

28:51 Well, as your wife and knowing you, I don't ever watch that stuff. Like, I'm always busy doing my own thing. But this morning we watched a little bit. And the thing I could see about you is look at the sparkle in your eye, look at how white your eyes are, the whites of your eyes are, look at how the joy and happiness is coming out of you. You know, you I could tell you were channeling, I could see it, I could see the light coming out of you. And it's a funny thing. Because right before my mom passed, like when she first went in the hospital, she was in at St. Joe's, they have this gem program where they kind of take you in, look at your meds, see if there's anything they can do, but you actually live in the hospital for a week or two. And they assess you. So I went in that week three times and I did treatments on her.

29:38 And the last one I did was a Thursday night. And she had had a bad episode on the Sunday after, but the last treatment I did on her, when I was all finished, I put her head in my chest and her head was right in my heart. And I was rubbing and kind of giving her a head massage, because obviously you're in a hospital room in bed, it's not very comfortable. So I thought, oh, mum loved her hair being played with her head being rubbed. So I did that. But when we were finished and I put her head back, because I mean, she was a little wonky, I, I was going to say a bad word there. I was going to say that when I put her head back, there was a beam of light that came out of the right eye. And I mean, and her eye looks so bright and connected.

30:23 And I know the right side of the brain is the creative connected part as well. So it was no surprise to me. And I knew she was getting ready to transition. And I mean, I know it took, I think three months from then, but she wasn't actually diagnosed right then either. So it was always so cool to me how energy works and how, you know, so amazing because you, in the moment, you feel like you're there to relieve somebody's, you know, stress or pain. But actually, it feels like you were preparing her, preparing her for the next, you know, phase. Oh, I definitely knew I was too, because that's the day I told her that she wasn't ready right yet. But when she was that her mom would come get her. So, but this is the beauty, this is the beauty of spirit connection of being connected to energy being connected to universal consciousness. Because in that moment, somebody who maybe doesn't nurture their connection might think, Oh, no, like my mom is going to die. Like this is awful. But for you, you were able to see the beauty of the transition, right? You're able to see the beauty of what's happening. You're able to see the magic of the light that's coming through your mom.

31:37 And anybody that's watched somebody pass, there usually is a time usually a few days or so before they pass where they just brighten right up. And they get like, you know, color in their cheeks and their eyes are clear. And they're just like lucid. And then all of a sudden, they go downhill and they're gone. Well, that lucid, clear, beautiful moment where they're just glowing is spirit coming. They're, they're hot as much of their energy is focused into their physical body in that moment. And it is so beautiful. I'm so glad you said that because that's one of my that's probably one of the hardest things for me is to see how in life, some of us feel like we have to suffer, but then in death, they're suffering too. And I just wish I wish that if, if anything that our podcast does that it shows people the true gift in life and death, because, you know, we don't have to suffer because people that we love pass, we can remember them in a beautiful way. And I'll, I'll be honest, my grandmother, when she passed, it was really hard because as a kid, and we had lots of struggles as kids in our family, she was my solid. She was the person that I could be around and feel hope and joy and,

32:59 And what I couldn't feel sometimes at home because it was so crazy for kids, you know, my parents were both kids when they had us, you know, my mother was 21 and she had four kids. So, you know, that we, we look at things from a judgment perspective, but if we really could look at how does a 16 year old woman have a child and know even how to take care of it, but then to have four by the age of 21, like, I guess my mother's always been a little bit of a hero in my eyes because she has, she has gone through, she went through so much and she was always just so sweet. And I'm not saying she was perfect, nobody is, but man, she was so easy to make happy and stuff. But I just, I just love that even when my mom passed, I have had lots of communication with her. And I think the difference between those of us that can have that and those of us that, that don't is because the people that don't don't believe that they can, they're keeping themselves small. They're keeping themselves feeling like they're not enough because insecurity is the biggest killer of spirit there is. Oh, it builds up so much resistance. Now, usually people have a little bit of fear, like I'm teaching mediumship. That's what I,

34:19 That's what I do as well as everything else I do, but I mentor mediums. So I teach a course called the magic of mediumship. I love the name. And I'm going to plug it because level one starts March 22nd. If you are interested in opening your connection to the spirit world, what we do is we focus on the things that people have the hardest time with. So most people have the hardest time with fear. There's usually a little bit of fear, whether it's, it's usually not fear of spirit. It's usually fear of responsibility. So the responsibility of actually carrying forward a real truthful message that can help somebody. And most people that are drawn to my course, they, they're so fearful of hurting somebody. So we'd, we'd go, we get through that. That's one wall of resistance, but really the, the next biggest wall of resistance is trust and belief. So actually to have trust is a very big one trust and spirit that they are always going to give you what you need, but the belief in yourself that this is possible. And then having the gratitude for the opportunity to be able to do this, that gratitude, we work on gratitude, we work on empowerment a lot in level one, because you need to see that those are high

35:37 Vibrational energies that pull you into the flow of mediumship. And you can't be, you can't connect with spirit as well. When you're coming from the place of fear or mistrust or non-belief, it just, they build walls. And yes, there's an education piece. I mean, I'm a teacher. I love to teach. So there's information. But the information is really not, people think they need the information, but that's not the biggest barrier to mediumship. The biggest barrier to mediumship is trust and self, trust and spirit and belief that it will happen exactly the way it's supposed to. And I've been watching you the last, I've been watching you very intently, I'll say the last three years, because the last three years, I've really stepped back, still doing all my work, but really creating a new foundation for us.

36:34 Yeah. And I would say I've been watching you too. And I think what you're doing, it's the, it's a foundational piece of physical, but you're also doing the foundational piece within yourself and within your own work and looking at how best can I serve, how best can I serve the universe with what I have to offer. And I've watched you reformulate how you want to approach this because in the past, you know, we do the physical things like open the wellness center, you take the courses, you, you got your insurance coverage and you're like, okay, we got a center, you know, people are going to come for treatments and they're going to have these like experiences of healing. And that you, you're very good at like the physical like building, but then you're so connected spiritually, how do we take your, you know, ability to help others?

37:26 How do we take it? And we share it with people in a tangible way so they understand what you actually do for people. Well, and I struggled because when I first took my professional life coaching course and mentorship and all that, you know, I had great responses from my teachers, my teacher wrote me a letter saying how intuitive I was and you couldn't teach the way I was coaching and stuff. But being honest, I really struggled. And I, I didn't realize till I was finished renovating this house that I struggled because of my own, I put myself in that struggle. And it was because I, I chose big things in this life. And my family, my children and my grandchildren are everything to me. And I left a full-time wellness center. I left my kids, my grandkids. And this is just the way I'm explaining it right now. I obviously know better than what I'm saying right now. But I left it all behind and moved to Halifax to be with Laura and her kids, because the right thing to do was to come here. The right thing to do was so that her children could have their mom and their dad and their life on a regular basis. And I, I didn't want to like interrupt that at all. However, this fall, part of my anger, I'll say anger, because I was, I was an angry little elf for a little while. But it was because number one,

38:43 I was tired because some stuff had happened that kind of guess the easiest way to explain it was I stepped into a puddle. That was my past that a few things happened. And I was, I was a little angry because I was in that place. But then I turned it around and got to voice my opinion in a very simple way, which then gave me the power to look at myself and say, Oh, wow, you are so much further ahead than what you think. But I had to go through that little angry part, I'll call it, because I got tired of doing for everyone else and tired. And I fell into an old pattern where I was taking care of everyone but me. And this is the beauty of life is that no matter what level of consciousness you're at, if you chose big things, then you're going to constantly have big lessons, big experiences. And here's the thing. Yes, like, there's definitely 2025 was endings, like wrapping up old things, but beauty having the connectedness that you have, having the connection to that universal consciousness to

39:59 Teach you and guide you, you went through a really, really hard life transition with more ease and more speed than most people could ever contemplate or ever understand. So your connection with spirit took something very difficult and helped you go through it with grace and see that is the gift. Thank you. That's that's the gift. That's the gift of being connected. That's the magic of spirit connection, what we're talking about. If you allow yourself to feel your connectedness, because there is no hierarchy on the other side. So although some people say, Oh, I can't do that, little old me, that's not how it works. You are capable of great things, you're capable of anything you can dream of. So knowing that knowing you are a splinter of the divine, knowing you are no less, no less than the trees and the stars, knowing that you are capable of anything you want to do if you're willing to go after it. And then also having the support from spirit to teach you and guide you all the lessons that you have learned, Kim,

41:16 Up until this point, that's how you were able to go through this transition that would take most people down. You were able to go through it and still work and still see family and still travel to New Brunswick and still work on the house and still be there for me. So, you know, think about all that pressure on you. Anybody would have broke down. But you handled everything very well because of the magic of the connection you have with your own path, with the spirit world, with universal consciousness, with the earth. Well, I thank you very much for saying that. I appreciate that even though you're my wife, but I know you're speaking truth. Well, I love you a little bit, just a bit. But I think the other thing that this all did for me was it put me in a position where I had no choice but to see all the beauty that was coming from clients and friends and all the beautiful things people have said about me and watching myself do things around this house, you know, like take four bay sheets of plywood and make my own trim. Well, MDF, you know, and all the things you and I pushed each other to do with building this house. And I think that's why the house means so much to us is there's so much of us in it. But really, I'm not someone with

42:35 Some great big ego, but I am somebody with a great big connection. And I have more love. I'm so soft. I love life. I love people so much. And I, I hate to see them hurt. And you know, I'm going to share this, we've probably shared this story multiple times before, but in New Brunswick, one of these clients that I worked on, he was not, he's nonverbal. And this is the beauty of connection. This is like it in the purest form I can explain. His name is Brad, and he is one beautiful human being, but he has never spoken a word. I don't exactly remember what. So Brad has what, what we've been calling it, it's a genetic condition and it has a really long name, but basically he has seizures. So we've been saying multiple, it's like a severe form of epilepsy, but he's suffered brain damage from the seizures. So here's this beautiful guy, and I think he was probably 25 at the time, but he was coming over for a treatment and I asked Laura to be a part of it.

43:39 And there's a trickster in me, and I'll be honest, there, there always has been it's, it's like I'm somebody who always wants to show somebody that the power of belief is the strongest connection we can have and it can bring the most beauty to our life. But so Laura came down and I said, well, you break his head and I'll work, I'll reflexology his feet. And I knew, I just knew this beautiful thing was going to happen. And the caregiver was sitting in the room. And basically he talked Laura's ear off in spirit, like there was no communication, obviously verbally, it was all like spirit led. And he, he told her so many beautiful things that the caregiver started getting nervous. And it was, it was simplicity. It was like, tell my dad to change the applesauce he's feeding me, it's real gritty, it's like sand. And so he said all these, you know, things like that. And the caregiver that has been struggling, thinking that he doesn't like him, well, it wasn't that at all. This is a hyper sense of human being. And so rough beard or rough hands would be very overstimulating for him, you know, and that's all it was. So here we get all these beautiful messages and he ends it with telling his mom how much he said, make sure you tell my mom how much I love that she

44:55 Sings to me every night before I go to bed. Like, I'm not joking. If I ever remember a story and it gets me gets me every time. Because Brad, we don't trust enough. No. And Brad, he opened up his world to me just in just into like a little Reiki treatment. He opened up his world to me and he talked to me and I got, I felt his personality. I felt, you know, who he really is. And I felt his love for everyone in his life that looks after him. And I also felt this amazing piece that he had within himself for his path, right, which is mind blowing to us, right? Here is this guy who when he, when he gets sick, he gets really sick, like if he just gets cold or whatever, because his system's always fighting and he has seizures, he can't talk, he has difficulty, like his movements are spastic and things like that. He needs help walking, he needs help going to the bathroom, like everything. And here he is. And he's like, Nope, this is the way I'm supposed to be in this life.

46:00 Like I'm totally comfortable and aware that this is what my soul chose. And I'm amazing. And he has an incredible mom. I mean, his mother is just a beautiful human being. Again, judgment. We can look at somebody like Brad and say, Well, he doesn't understand what we're talking about. Or, you know, he doesn't want to be included. He doesn't care if we include him in anything or like he doesn't care. And that, you know, he is so communicative with me and Kim, like he'll grab our hands, he'll pull us down and kiss our cheek. Yeah, like he'll grab your hand, pull you kiss your cheek, he will share like he shared meals with Kim. He's that is the there was one night that we went over to see his mom and his mom said, Hey, Brad, do you want a glass of wine? And she gave him a glass of wine and he sat with all like he's, he's in his 30s, but you know, like he sat with us and he had a glass of wine. Like, you know, of course we include him, we talk to him and he, he can't exactly always look at you or acknowledge you, but I could feel his acknowledgement within his energy.

46:59 He has body gesturing. Yeah, I could feel him listening to us and, and being in the moment with us and just loving it. So here, here we are in the, in this like world of, you know, we were given most of us anyway, given the gift of sight, touch, taste here, you know, and so most people go through life and that's the only senses they use, you know, but that's why it's so interesting to me to see people evolve through my lens of mediumship to see people evolve into moving into using all of their human, all of their human and extra sensory perception in an energy receiver to receive that energy to read it to translate it and give a message to somebody who needs it. So it's like a, I've perfected it for me and I'm helping other people do the same. And a student said to me the other day, she said, you know, since taking your course, you named the course, right? Because she said, I am seeing magic in everything. I see magic in my kids faces. I see magic in nature, in like plants. I see magic in every and people and how

48:16 They're kind to each other. And she said, I'm just seeing it all over the place. So it's like you open that, open that possibility, open the channel and feel how much your inner power comes back and your confidence too, because you stop second guessing everything. You just, you, you know how you feel, you learn about yourself, you learn about your own truth. So Kim in her life was faced with all these challenges early on. She had to learn real fast who she was. She didn't have a choice. It was about survival. But most of us, you know, as humans, we look at a nice safe childhood and we think, oh, that is not lovely. Well, it is lovely on one level, but on another level, if you've never been challenged, then you don't really know who you are. Well, and growth is about experience, right? So the more growth you, the more experiences you have, the more growth you have. And I'm so grateful for the parents that I, I chose to have and even my siblings and stuff. And I, I don't agree. We don't always agree on the same things. And that's okay. But I deeply love them. And I know that we're all on a different path, you know, and it's okay.

49:30 So we're not always alike. We don't always agree on, you know, politics and stuff. And that's okay. You're, you have so much confidence in your path, but where does that come from? I think I can remember like being a kid, just knowing. And, and I think one thing that's, that's always been in the back of my mind. And obviously I'm not going to start my own church. Maybe you will. I've always believed in God consciousness more than I believed in anything. But I've, I've never, you know, it started with obviously the Bible and what we all know. But then it changed into something that was so beautiful, there could be no judgment, there could be no lack of love or respect for self or, you know, and I think that's partly why I hit a wall in the fall is I had to be pushed and stretched beyond myself because, you know, I remember you talked about Jesus as well a little while ago. And one of the things with Jesus is I have this profound love for him. But I think he was kind of a little bit of a backyard guru like me, you know, you know, he, he had sandals on, you know, or walked barefoot either way. He said, you know, that we were born in his image and likeness. And we're, he's, you know, one of the other things is you can do greater things. Like, and he didn't worry about

50:50 People that threw rocks. So those things stuck in my mind. And I have used them, like, I've had to times to explain to people too, though, that, you know, we, we absolutely faith. Yeah, we put these, like, these idols, like we make idols out of people. And God, I just think Jesus, I used to say, I feel really bad for Jesus because people put a lot of pressure on him. I'm like, and, you know, everybody wants him to look like them. And there's, yeah, and there's a lot of, there's a lot of, you know, miscommunication around who he actually was. So what they're promoting is like, this is, you know, this is the Jesus we know. Well, I don't really think that's who he was. You got to walk like this, stand like that, sit like this. I mean, obviously he's, he's an ascended master. So he's not, he's not worried about any of the stuff, but, but I, I did at one point kind of be like, man, I feel really bad for Jesus.

51:50 What a weight to carry, you know? But yeah, I feel like what, what has happened is that, you know, obviously Kim had to make a choice early in her life and childhood, like, what do I, what do I want to believe? And my, my choice was kind of gradually made. Like, I, I can say that I've had depression, anxiety in my life. And I noticed that when I completely connected and opened myself up to the spirit world, and I allowed it to happen, and I trusted that it was okay. That's when the depression started to melt away. Because I couldn't be depressed anymore. When I'm connected to something so amazing and beautiful. And I feel it in my life every day, and I see it, I see it in my life every day. And this is the thing that I think you can make a choice, everybody can, but continue to choose what makes you feel the best, continue to choose the best feeling emotion, the best feeling action behavior, because it does make a difference. It does create that pathway for you. And I have so much confidence now in my path. And I can feel like I can feel it when something is right for me, when it's wrong for me. I can feel when energy comes into my field

53:06 That isn't, isn't for me, you know, and it really helps with mediumship when you know yourself. So if like, if you're drawn to, I've said this about the courses that if you're drawn to mediumship, then there's something there for you, because you wouldn't be drawn to it if you didn't have some ability. You just, it just doesn't work like that. So this is the trust that I'm talking about, that if people had more trust that they are drawn to the things that are best for them, you know, in most cases, and if you're doing things in your highest good and the highest good for other people, then you know that you're on the right path and you don't have to worry about how things turn out all the time, or you don't have to worry about the result because you're going to get whatever result you need. Well, and I think the healing work I've been a part of for 20 years, because that's another reason 2026 is going to be so big for both of us is that most people, if you did a survey of spiritually connected people, I would say that there's a lot of people that have a big spiritual awakening in 2006 and Laura and I were both one of those people. So for me, 2026 has this really big energy that's coming, but I finally know now what kind of coach I want to be. And that's why

54:22 I had to change everything this fall. And I'm still I'm still changing my website because I want it to be more me when I first did the course and I did the mentoring and all that, you know, it was what they told me I should do, but it never felt right. And here's the beauty of connection and energy. You know, I had this beautiful site built, but nothing came of it. I had coaching, but it was from personal people that I had worked on or whatever, but nothing was coming from the site. So this year, I decided that I had to rebamp myself and change my name and it needed to be more personal to me. And then that's when I came up with what is the greatest gift I possess connection, knowing. So what kind of a coach do I want to be?

55:07 I want to be a coach that can explain to people because we mostly know what we want. We just need a sounding board. We need somebody to talk to that kind of says, well, what I'm hearing is, you know, so a soul awakening coach is where I know I'm meant to be. Right. I've never felt it's so strong. And I know that there's a little bit of work to do. But boy, I've been doing this all my life, really. That's what I was going to say in my do you want to coach that, you know, is just new or do you want to coach that's basically lived this. They've lived all of these principles. They've lived the connectedness, the spiritualism, because Kim has lived it. And also, you've been in it. You made the choice to be a spiritually connected person as a child, because we've talked about this a lot. And Kim doesn't remember a time when she didn't believe in something bigger than herself.

56:05 Never. And that's not something most people can say. Most people have had to work very hard to get to that place. And I know myself that I guess I always had an odor self and an inner self. So my odor self that people saw, they would see me as very happy and positive and everything. But inside I was very doubtful, questioned everything, didn't understand, didn't know, didn't didn't feel good about certain things. Second guessing. And there was something, a very quiet voice inside of me that always told me everything was going to be okay. But I didn't develop my real connection with universal consciousness until I started doing mediumship. So I really think that what, like what Kim offers for soul coaching and what I offer for mediumship, they're different things. But we're, we really have the same goals. You know, when they come from the same place, we just do them differently.

57:05 We want people to find, find their place, find their own personal connectedness, and really develop that connection with spirit, because that is what's going to guide and support you in your darkest times. Well, and one of the things that's always been kind of a funny thing for me is that why do we choose this life, but then come in here, come down here and don't trust that we have within us what we need to survive and what we need to succeed and what we need to, you know, have this incredible life, because let's be honest, if we could bring a soul down and they'd sit at the table with us and we could interview them, they would say, you don't know how lucky you are to be down on the earth plane, right? Because yes, there's no, you know, their perception from where they are is they're not going through the hard stuff in the way of, you know, working and making money and all the crazy. It is different there, but this is, this is the bomb. This is the gift. This is the gift. This is heaven on earth. This is what you come here for to have this incredible experience. And if you're wasting your time thinking this is how that I'm sorry, you're sadly mistaken that there is so much beauty everywhere.

58:24 And when you open up to your own connection, you see it everywhere in the dormant trees and empowerment of choice, right? You have been given the gift of the power to choose. And so we have everything here, like we have good and bad, you know, here in this earth plane, but you have the power to choose where you want to invest your energy. And I think that is the biggest thing to know is that everything exists here. That's can be good or bad, right? Everything exists here. So everything exists. So you now, like a buffet, you have to choose what you want. You have to choose the way you want to feel. And so this is really the empowerment of knowing that you get to choose. You get to choose how you show up in this world. Well, and I always say, like everybody at the end of the year, they have New Year's resolutions and all that stuff. And it starts off and everybody's got lots of energy and then they burn out, right? But if everybody what what do you've been saying lately?

59:31 Motion is lotion. Oh, no, movement is like all medicine. Yeah, movement is medicine and all these things we've been saying because the truth is, the more you get outside and touch nature, you're touching heaven, you're touching God, get out and go for a walk, get out and go to the beach, get out and go for a hike and watch a waterfalls, watch a sunset, watch a sunrise. There is energy in everything we do. And the problem is the biggest problem I see is people are going 150 miles an hour with the blinders on and they're only seeing what they're chasing. Yeah, but they're missing everything in between. And one thing I notice about my grandchildren, even my kids, when we go home to New Brunswick, I see my son, I see my daughter, I see my daughter in law with four kids, I see their energy go, they relax because mom is there because that's right. And I feel so here's the thing as a mom, what is the greatest gift we can have knowing how we affect our children, knowing that what we put our effort in, it works out, it creates this beautiful bond. And you know, I love that my daughter and I have

1:00:47 Always been super close and connected. My son and I have always been super close and connected. They have never been disrespectful to me and they're 36 and 30. But I always think it's amazing when you can have a son, because, you know, girls talk to girls and we probably would say that we're, you know, we talk to our daughters more and you know, because we'll say, oh, well, we're, we're female, they're female, you know, you reason things away, but we're emotional. Yeah. But my son calls me all the time, no matter what, and he's not being negative. He's just talking. He's calling me to talk. And I can tell he just likes to talk to somebody solid because it makes him feel safe. Right. And you know what I think about when I feel that too? I think about how our connectedness, so if you yourself, the listener, if you can choose, if you can choose your own connectedness, you can also spread that energy to the other people in your life. So that's when you're talking, that's what it reminds me of. It reminds me of that ripple effect that when you are connected, and you know who you are, you can help other people do the same because they, you know, even if it's subconscious, they feel your energy and then they feel what it means for them. And then they want to get back

1:02:06 There. They want to have that feeling again. Well, what a gift to give other people. Exactly. And that, that is the thing. My daughter, the neatest thing about her is that any time somebody says, Oh, they compare her to me, whether it's their looks, whether it's the way they present themselves, how hard they try in sports, it doesn't matter. It is so cute to me to hear her say, Oh yeah, this one said, Oh, you've got to be Kim's daughter. Or yeah, remember when your mom was playing sports boy, oh boy, everybody, all us guys, like prayed for her to get on our team because we didn't want to be playing against her. And it's, it's all the ways that you know who you are and what, what you bring to the table has mattered that you see your kids grown adult kids giving back to you in a way that they say, I'm so grateful that you were my mom. But see, this is, this is what happens.

1:03:02 So this, this is what happens because you set up that connection with your kids, but you first have to have it within yourself. You first have to have it within yourself and create that energy. Then you're connecting with your kids and what do your kids do? They go out and they connect with other people and they share with other people and their own kids and their spouses. So we have a responsibility. If you're listening today, we all have a responsibility to discover what is our connection? What do we feel about the spirit world? How do we feel about universal consciousness? How do we feel about our path? You know, and trying to reach that highest good for yourself and for others means that you have to nurture your connection and see the magic for yourself. You have to see it for yourself before you can share it. Absolutely. And here we are at the end of 2025, which was kind of a rocky year for a lot of people, I think, because we are letting go of some old stuff.

1:04:06 2024 was hard too. We've had a few hard years in some ways of healing and learning because I do feel like 2026 being a different energy means that we had to. The universe forced us into these difficult situations, so we were prepared for the next thing. But now here we are and we're in this place where we're working on our own connection. We're working on our own life on our own feelings about ourselves. And it's perfect. You're in the perfect place right now. And I do have to say, if this is something that calls to you, if mediumship is something that calls to you, then just send me an email, laurawarrenmedium.com, send me an email through the website if you want to, and we'll talk because I feel so blessed to be able to share this connection with other people. And I hear what Kim's saying about her kids, but she really does it for anybody, anybody and everybody. So if you feel like Soul Awakening Coaching is for you, then contact Kim. Contact her at her email and you want to give them your email? mksoulcoaching.com. Perfect because she has a different way of doing things,

1:05:26 Mine is through the lens of mediumship because that's what I do. But she can connect and help you with what you're going through in a more, in a all encompassing kind of way. And this sharing this connection, like I said, she's not stingy. She's very generous. She's going to share everything she knows with you. And that is the thing to finish up 2025 and going into 2026 knowing that you have help, you have support, there are things you can do. Reach out, if it's not us, reach out to somebody else that you think hasn't figured out, you know, or feels good to you. Let's be honest, you and I had to develop our own work our own way because that was my biggest block with the way I was trying to do coaching before was I was trying to come from their platform and I'm somebody I have never worked for anybody other than myself. I've been an entrepreneur all my life other than four years when I first got out of high school. So I I've always been an entrepreneur and there's a reason for that I really care deeply about how I speak and the message that I bring forward because what I do and who I am is very, very important to me.

1:06:38 The legacy I leave behind is in how I walked in this life and how I touched people and how I created change within them. How beautiful is that? Well, we hope that you have felt the desire, felt the pull to develop your own connection with spirit. So you can see the magic that we see. Look forward to talking to you next week. See you next week. If you're interested in contacting Kim for Soul Awakening Coaching, please contact her at mksoulcoaching.com. If you'd like to check out my website and everything that I do, please go to laurawarrenmedium.com.